Children always have a desire for approval from their parents, "I want them to see" and "I want them to be recognized." It is said that children will be able to challenge anything without fear of failure if they always convey a stable affection to that desire, "I love you!". However, when it comes to communicating affection in a stable manner, some people may think, "I can't say that much every day." In such a case, instead of saying "I love you!", Let's say "Your hands are cold!" And "You are sweating!" This allows you to convey your affection naturally.

Communicating love by expressing your child's appearance and slight changes will stabilize your mind.

Please say what you noticed even in trivial things such as "Your hair is growing" and "You changed your clothes at preschool. Did you play a lot outside today?" The child feels that "Mom (daddy) cares for me even if I did my best and did something great," and the affection of my parents is firmly conveyed. Communicating your child's changes is also a message, "I'm always watching over you." That's the approval, and the child feels that he or she is being accepted as he or she is. And it gives you a sense of security that your parents are always watching.

Growing up as a confident child by communicating a lot of specific changes in the child

As mentioned earlier, you can show your child's interest and affection by simply telling them about unusual changes and behaviors. A child who receives a lot of love will grow up to be a child with a high sense of self-affirmation who thinks that "I am worth it just because I exist". You can convey the love of your parents by just touching your child's hands and saying, "Your hands are cold." A child who receives a lot of love from his parents will grow up to be a confident child who can challenge anything without fear of failure. Therefore, it's a good idea to put more and more words into the changes in your child that moms and dads have noticed.