To Raise Children who Keeps their Promises Parents MUST always Keep their Promises [YOU are the best MOM] vol.27

Parents must keep their promises in order to raise their children to keep their promises

From about 5 years old, there are scenes where parents and children make promises. For example, many families have made such promises with their children, such as "clean up the toys you put out, put the clothes you took off in the laundry basket, and play games for up to 2 hours a day." How about? I think there are many moms and dads who are concerned about the fact that even if they make an appointment with their child, they will not be able to keep it. Keeping promises is important for building trust in relationships, such as making friends. When you are little, you may be overlooked even if you can't keep your promise, but in the future, you need to be able to keep your promise in order to lead a social life.

Parents can't keep their promises, but children can't keep their promises

In order for children to keep their promises, it is important for parents to keep their promises first. Seeing parents who keep their promises will help their children keep their promises. I promised to go to the park on Sunday, but decided to go shopping, or I promised, "I'll play when I come back from preschool," but I'm too busy to play. Do you have such an experience? Even the smallest things can be remembered by a child, "Mom didn't keep her promise." When parents can't keep their promises, children can't keep their promises.

The important thing is the experience of "trying to keep your promise"

It is important for parents to keep their promises to their children in order to tell their children that they keep their promises. For example, suppose you promise to read a picture book when the bath is over. However, when the bath is over, you may forget about the picture books and play with other toys. In such a case, let's talk to your mom. She said, "I had promised to read a book, but what about? If you want to play with toys now, you can read a book again." As a result, children may choose to play with toys. The important thing is not to choose what to choose, but to experience the feeling that "Mom remembered her promise" and "tried to keep her promise." Of course, promises that cannot be made, lies to get through the place are NG. If you can experience a lot of comfort in your relationship with your mom, you will grow up to be a child who can keep your promise.