What is the word of parents who change the child who does not challenge with perfectionism? [YOU are the best MOM] vol.42

A perfectionism is an image such as "anything", "Anyway", "Yasuo", but actually asks for perfection too much, "I'm feared excessively," "Don't challenge that it's not so easy," "I can't challenge." There is also a negative aspect, such as "I'm not confident." It is often a young age, so it will grow as much as possible, so if you face a little difficult thing, it will be more difficult and it will not be accepted.

Let's apply the words that support to be easy to challenge

Perfectionism children do not work well from low. However, on the other hand, too much worry about people 's evaluations This type is a big stress that it does not work well. I can not take a step towards a fear that I'm looking for perfection and fear that it fails. When you try to challenge, let's take a step to take a step forward. "Do you do together?" "Do you do?"

"I'm working hard," and I will give you a word that recognizes the effort of the process, and nurturing the challenge spirit

The perfection princess is looking for perfection, so I do not care about your effort. If you are working hard, "Do your best!" If you're doing your best! "And I will feel the pressure and" I have to do my best. " When you give up perfectionism, if the result is good, please give me a word "I am always working hard" and the word to recognize the effort of the process. It is a type that tends to emphasize the results, but if parents are always focusing on their children's efforts, they will gradually be considered, "Even if it fails, it's not ashamed, it's not ashamed," new challenge I will not be afraid. Originally, if you get a challenge spirit to a child of a good raw type, you will be able to grow more and more skills.