I want my child to be confident. Even if you go out into society and hit a big wall, you need confidence to stand up. Children are naturally confident. However, at the stage of growth, you lose confidence in evaluations from others and comparisons with others. So how does one grow up to be a confident child? It leads to the confidence of the child by being aware of the “approval” voice that tells the mother that she is looking at the child properly every day.It is the same for adults and children that they are "happy" to be aware of the changes.For example, suppose you go to a hair saloon, change your hairstyle and hair color a little, and when you went to pick up your child in the evening, it made you happy when your friend, who you hadn't had much contact with, said, "You cut your hair." However, on the contrary, if the husband who came home tired at night does not notice it, you will be a little depressed. There is a big difference in feelings between being aware of the change and not being aware of it. It's the same for children.Acknowledgement by telling what I feel and complimenting itApproval is important to acknowledge the existence of the other party. All you have to do is tell them that you are interested. "Your clothes are dirty, maybe you played outside." "Your pants have become shorter. I wonder if you've grown taller." "You could change clothes quickly." Just don't praise it. That alone is one of the expressions of affection in the message "I'm always watching" and "I care".The child's heart is strengthened just by thought of their parents are always watchingThe best example of a child is the parent, and it is important for the parent to treat the child with a broad feeling. When parents are stressed and angry or constantly complaining, the stress and anxiety can be transmitted to their children and have a negative impact. If you think that someone, whether you are a child or an adult, is always seeing you doing your best, you will be motivated and confident. Children originally have an aspiration to "become better". Let me tell you that you can now compare with your past child without comparing with other children. The first step in self-affirmation is for the child to feel that “dad and mom always care about and watch over them”. First of all, let's try to accept and love the existence of the child unconditionally with a generous feeling.