Changing Your Child into a Baby who can Dress up by Themselves[YOU are the best MOM] vol.11
Let's change a child who can't dress oneself with a single word from mom!
Why can't my child be told about getting dressed to go to Kindergarten, etc. every morning, such as "Did you brush your teeth?" And "Change clothes early." Have you ever thought so?I think I often get scolded from the morning. If possible, I want her to be a child she can do, even if her child isn't told anything. However, few children can prepare themselves without being told anything. "Then, I have to say until I understand it."However, if you scold emotionally when you can't have a child, the situation may get worse without improvement. not. Scolding has no effect. Don't be scolded, tell your child what it's time to do, such as "It's time to change clothes. What do you want to take off?" And ask your child what to do.In a word of mom, the child will be happy and the dressing will be finished soonIf you are told more than one thing at a time and are rushed, your child will be irritated and all will be half-hearted. When you want to make your child's behavior faster, it is easier to convey it by focusing on one and specifically encouraging it.For example, even if you say, "Change your clothes quickly! Brush your teeth!", Some children may be confused about what to do because they are just irritated. In that case, if you say something like a game, such as "Now, it's time to change clothes. What are you going to take off?"Also, in order to get the child to move, ask questions such as "Take off from the top? Take off from the bottom?" So that the child can choose what to do. Then, observe the child's dressing and tell him what he was able to do concretely, such as "You wore the front and back of the shirt without making a mistake." If you feel that you are acknowledged what you are doing, your child will be willing to enjoy getting dressed. When you're in a hurry, praise what you've done and get ready quickly.
Just put the movement into words and the child feels recognized
When the child has a good time getting dressed, he / she becomes interested in getting dressed and feels like doing it himself / herself. As an easy way, let's just put the child's movements into words, saying, "You have taken off your pants." Just telling them what you have done will make your child feel recognized. In addition, let's tell you what you are doing concretely, such as "It's quick to press the button" and "You're brushing your teeth properly". Children will be more and more happy and motivated.