The strength of a child's commitment will be a talent to work hard towards a dream [YOU are the best MOM] vol.36

Some children cry when they are very particular about it and don't get what they want. It's a child who sticks to "I only want to wear blue trousers!" And "I want to close the door myself!" When you're busy and you don't have time, when you encounter these situations, your parents become emotional and frustrated. "I wonder if my child is selfish" "How can I hear what you say?" May bother mom, but it's okay! In fact, the strength of commitment is the talent to concentrate on one thing and do your best.

Accept allegations as much as possible, except for danger, immorality, and unhealth.

A child who has a strong attachment to things and who has his own way and rules may feel that he is a selfish child from an adult's point of view. Just as moms have their own ways and routines, so do their children. If your child's claims are not dangerous, immoral, or unhealthy, moms should accept them as much as possible. When she finds out that she has accepted her opinion, her child's emotions calm down.

Grow your child's commitment to one thing

In the future, strong commitment will grow into the ability to do everything in one thing. When you find something you like, you have the strength to concentrate on "I want to do this" and complete it to the end. It has the potential to bring great results by gradually making efforts in the fields that you like. When I was a kid, I was very self-assertive and sometimes bothered my mom, but my commitment is one of my talents. By being accepted by moms, your commitment should grow into talent.