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Let your child's first learning experience be a “good imitation” of moms and dads [YOU are the best MOM] vol.31

Let your child's first learning experience be a “good imitation” of moms and dads

"Why can't you hear me!" The experience of telling a child such a word is something that every parent has. So why do children behave in the opposite way to what their parents think? In fact, the cause may be the parents. If you are worried about your child not listening to you, you may find a solution by looking back on your words and actions objectively. Perhaps the usual casual words and attitudes influence a child's behavior. For example, if Mama was busy and she always closed the doors and drawers with her feet instead of her hands, the child would just think that Mama's behavior was correct and she would end up using her feet to close the doors and drawers.

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A child who knows nothing grows up by imitating mom and dad

"Children grow up looking at their parents' backs (children will live the same way as their parents)," which is true. The teachers who learn for the first time when children are born are moms and dads. A child who knows nothing will see mom and dad, imitate them, and learn. It is from the home environment that you learn the basics of daily life, such as how to eat meals, how to say hello, and how to follow traffic rules. That is why moms and dads need to be aware of proper language and etiquette so that they can be imitated by their children. Also, when dealing with children, you should be careful to say and act positively and sympathetically. It also creates compassion for the child himself.

Children grow up by imitating. It would be nice if you could create an environment where you can experience various “good imitations” and acquire the abilities necessary for growth.