Overcoming Crybabies

Characteristics of crybaby children and how to improve themIt can be frustrating for a child who cries so quickly for a little bit. If it is repeated on a daily basis, mom will get tired. How can I improve my kids habit of crying quickly? This time, we will introduce the characteristics of crybaby children and the points of how to treat them.What are the common characteristics of crybaby children?So what exactly does a child start crying for? Let's take a look at some of the most common features of crybaby children.・ I can't stand itIf you do everything your child says, you will grow up without knowing to put up with it. Your children will think that crying will satisfy their desires, and they will make various requests by means of crying.・ I want to catch the eyes of my parentsSome children will continue to cry, thinking that their parents will take care of them if they cry. When they want to do something, they will think "If I cry loudly, I can get the attention of the people around me."・ Scary and delicate personalitySome children are surprised by little things and get scared and cry immediately. You don't know how to deal with it yourself, and you may cry because you want to rely on someone.As you can see, a child who cries quickly seems to have some characteristics. There is something in common, such as "expressing emotions by crying instead of words." Now, let's see how to deal with a crybaby child. Have them practice explaining the reason for crying in wordsFirst of all, it is necessary to teach a crybaby child that "even if you cry, the request will not pass". Even if your child starts crying, parents should stay one step away. Then ask in a calm voice why they are crying. If your child doesn't answer when you ask, ask, "Are you crying because it's XX?" As you repeat this, your child will be able to explain in words the reason for crying, and they will understand that "crying does not mean that you will do something immediately." It may be a time when they still want to be pampered, but they have to get independent little by little. First, try practicing to explain in words why they are crying.I'll explain why it's not goodWhen a child starts crying, they tend to be spoiled, but let's calm down once. As mentioned above, if you think that your desires will pass by crying, you will cry all the time in front of the toys you want, despite the fact that you are in public. At such times, if parents think that "if you buy it, it will be settled", you will end up with an unbearable personality when your child grows up, and your kids will definitely have a hard time when they go out into society.Some people may think that it's okay to spoil them as much as when they were children, but let's face it firmly, thinking that it is better to teach the bad things properly for the future of the child. When explaining to your child, be sure to talk about why it is not good. If you explain it in simple words, they will try to understand you as a child. At this time, be patient and be patient, and explain so that the content does not change. In the meantime, your kids will start to think that even if they cry, it will not answer your desires, and they will gradually become patient.Face the child with a calm attitudeParents who are having trouble with crybaby kids should first understand why their child is crying and start where they do not immediately meet their demands. Crying is an important way to express emotions, but it is also necessary to communicate your feelings in words in the process of growth. If parents treat them calmly and consistently, their children will soon be able to calm down and control their emotions. The crybaby season is a path that everyone goes through. Please do not rush and communicate with your child carefully.Don't be emotional and unnecessarily angryI wrote that spoiling a child is not good, but let's understand that it is not the same as spoiling a child. To spoil is to understand the child's feelings and accept the child's psychological needs.When you want to be pampered by your parents, you may be looking for a sense of security. When I think that my parent's interest in me is diminishing, such as when the number of siblings increases and the time my parents have to take care of me decreases, or when they praise only my friends, I want to be able take care of myself. There are various ways to hug and blame questions, but one of them is to cry.Some parents may get angry when they cry, "Why do you cry!" However, even if the child gets irritating like that, he just wants to attract the attention of his parents. For a child, skin-ship with a parent is like a tranquilizer. So, when your kids start crying, don't be bothered by saying, "You're acting spoiled again!", But gently hug them, then your kids may stop crying like magic.