The Biggest Problem for New Moms!?? What to do and what not to when your Baby doesn't Stop Crying

For new moms, the most troublesome thing about raising children is that they can't stop crying. I think everyone has had the experience of a baby crying with great momentum, not stopping crying at all, and involuntarily panicking. It's normal for babies to cry, but what causes them to cry differently or violently?First of all, after confirming the reason why the baby cries by age, we will explain the measures to be taken when the baby cries loudly or suddenly starts crying with great momentum. It also explains things you should never do it for a baby who can't stop crying, so please take a look to the end.Reasons for a baby's cry; By AgeNo matter what you do, whether you change diapers or raise your breasts, if your baby doesn't stop crying, mommy will want to cry too. In such a case, first think about why your baby is crying. The main reasons for babies by age are as follows.About 1 to 3 monthsMost newborn babies up to about 3 months old are crying because they are uncomfortable and complain. Make sure your baby isn't feeling any discomfort, such as being hungry, hot or cold, or hungry.About 4 to 6 monthsAfter 4 months, sleepiness is one of the causes of crying as well as hunger and discomfort. It also makes me feel lonely and cry because my mom and dad aren't nearby and I don't have the toys I use all the time.After 7-9 monthsWhen it becomes possible to distinguish the faces of people such as moms and dads, the cases of crying due to shyness and the disappearance of the appearance of moms and dads often lead to crying. In addition, the number of children who start crying at night will increase from around 7 months.Causes of Babies Crying HardA baby who conveys his / her discomfort and feelings to others by crying, but when he / she cries differently or when he / she cries violently, there may be the following reasons.6 Features of  "Purple Crying"The baby's crying behavior that bothers parents is sometimes called purple climbing. It is named "PURPLE" by taking the acronym of the following six characteristics.P: Peak of CryingBabies start crying around the first two weeks of life and begin to cry more as the number of weeks increases. They cry most often in the second month of life, and these crying decreases in the third to fifth months of life.U: UnexpectedSuddenly stops crying while crying a lot, but I don't know the cause of either.R: Resists soothingCan't stop crying no matter how I calm the baby down.P: Pain-like faceWhile crying, it may look painful even if it is painless.L: Long lastingA total of 5 hours or more of crying lasts a day.E: Evening to EveningThe baby often cry late in the afternoon or from the evening to the beginning of the night.Baby ColicIf your baby is about 2-4 weeks old and cries hard, it may be "Baby colic". It is characterized by crying while fluttering its arms and legs and bending its back, and crying by squeezing its fist. The cause of baby colic is not clear, but it may be thought that the underdeveloped digestive system causes discomfort, such as gas in the abdomen. Baby colic is not a disease and will subside spontaneously around 3-4 months of age.HSCA baby who does not stop crying may be an HSC (Highly Sensitive Child). It is said that about 1 in 5 babies will see this HSC, and they may start crying with a slight stimulus such as hugging or feeding the baby. It is important to reduce such external stimuli as it reacts sensitively to changes in room temperature, loud noises, and bright light.How to Deal with a Baby's Crying Suddenly What if your baby cries or suddenly cries hard? In such a case, let's cooperate with mom and dad and try the following methods.Carry in ArmHold your baby and fit it snugly against your mom and dad. Your baby may feel relieved if you say something like "Mom (dad), it's okay".Breastfeeding... Change diapersYour baby may be crying because he is hungry or his diaper is dirty. Breastfeed and change diapers to see what your baby is doing.Check your physical conditionMake sure your clothes aren't tight and that you don't have diaper rash. Also check if it's hot or cold.I'll tryHold it and wrap it in a swaddle. It is also recommended to make the vinyl crumple so that you can hear the sound of "see" so that you can remember when you were in your stomach. Also, when you go for a drive, you may stop crying with a pleasant vibration.What you can't do for a baby who can't stop cryingIf the baby keeps crying, the adults around him will feel stressed. However, just because your baby doesn't stop crying, it's very dangerous to do the following: Never go.Irresponsible neglectYou may want to leave your crying baby for a short while, such as when your mom is doing a little housework. But that's only for a very short time in a safe place like home. Do not leave your baby for a long time, not only at home but also on the go. Such behavior may also be considered abandonment of childcare.Shake violentlyFrustrated moms and dads tend to shake their babies violently. However, the baby's brain is still very soft, and if it is shaken violently, the blood vessels and nerves in the brain may break and cause damage. This is called "infant shaking syndrome," but it can lead to speech problems, difficulty walking, blindness, and, in the worst case, death.Newborn babies may cry for a reason, as well as for no reason. If the baby starts crying, try various things such as healing and taking care of them, and check the baby's physical condition. If you have symptoms that you are worried about as well as crying, consult a medical institution. Crying for no reason can be a pain for any mom or dad, but it will eventually settle down as they grow up. I want to keep up with the crying, thinking that the baby is growing up so well that he can cry loudly.