Eye Contact when Scolding Generates Trust in You [YOU are the best MOM] vol.23

Make eye contact when scolding your child. Children feel trust and affection from their eyes

Many parents are worried about how to scold their children. No matter how many times you say the same thing to your child, you will often not obey. In some cases, parents may become emotional. Also, depending on how you scold, you may hurt your child.

The way you convey it to your child depends on how you say it and your attitude. When scolding a child, it is important to look at them and talk to them in a way that is easy for them to understand.

Scolding with your eyes is one of the skinships

When scolding a child, look at it and talk. Even if you get angry while doing other things, it will not be communicated properly to your child. While doing other things, I just feel that my parents are in a bad mood. Also, when scolding with your eyes, lower your eyes and try to scold at the same height as your child. When an adult speaks from above, the child feels intimidating.

Scolding with your eyes is one of the skinships. Even 0-year-old babies can read facial expressions and emotions by looking at their parents' eyes. Children feel trust and affection from their parents' eyes. And the emotions transmitted from the eyes also lead to the mental stability of the child.

When telling children, "short" and "in easy-to-understand words"

It's important to keep an eye on your child as a way to tell the story, but another important thing is to tell it as "short" and "in plain language" as possible. Children do not stay focused for long. Even if a child thinks that he has to look and listen, if the story is long or difficult to understand, he will not be able to concentrate. If you lose your concentration and go to a different place, and you get scolded for that, you may not like listening to the story. I want to keep in mind that parents can talk "in a straightforward manner using simple words" so that their children can listen properly.