A Child's Personality depends on....?

Is your child's personality hereditary? Home environment? Decided on which?

Looking at the children, there are really various children such as gentle children, slightly mean children, funny children, mysterious children, and so on. The personality of a child is greatly related to the family environment and the relationship with the parent. Therefore, this time, we will introduce things that affect the personality of children and the characteristics of people who grew up in a complicated family environment, as a reference for your child-rearing.

Children's personality is influenced by both heredity and living environment

Is personality inherited as well as face and body shape? It's easy to understand that visible parts such as facial parts and body parts are genetic, but what about personality parts such as emotions and sensations? In conclusion, it is said that a child's personality is influenced by both "heredity" and "living environment". Of course, there is a genetic part, but it seems that the personality changes greatly depending on the family environment in which you grew up and your relationship with your parents.

Characteristics of people who grew up in a complex environment

About half of a child's personality is determined by genes, but it is known that homes and parents also influence it. From here, let's look at the characteristics of the personality of a person who grew up in a complex environment.

Blame failure for "others"

A child raised by parents who think about things on a profit and loss account can be blamed for failure. To blame others for failure is the so-called transfer of responsibility. By transferring responsibility to others for their own mistakes, they escape responsibility and try to enter a position where they do not lose. As a result, you end up with an unacceptable personality.

Increased desire for self-revealing

Raised by parents who are not interested in their children, they tend to have a stronger desire to reveal themselves. Self-revealing desire is the desire to be noticed and recognized by others. Since I was a child, I try to get a sense of security by appealing my existence and getting my parents to recognize me. Even after becoming an adult, I feel that if I don't appeal to myself, people around me won't recognize me, and my desire to reveal myself will grow stronger.

I don't trust people

For example, if a parent grows up in a family environment where they are divorced many times, they may become untrustworthy. Even if you have a good time together, you will eventually feel that you are moving away from yourself. Because I feel sad each time a person leaves, I come to the decision that I don't trust the person from the beginning. By not trusting people, we protect our hearts.

Become selfish

Children raised in a family environment where parents are often absent due to double-income or other reasons tend to be selfish. Many parents extremely spoil their children because of the guilt of not being able to stay with them when they work together and spend less time with their children. Children tend to be spoiled by their parents, so they take a selfish attitude toward others.

Give due consideration to how you treat your child

Half of a child's personality is genetic, but the other half can be changed by the environment and parent-child relationships. While acknowledging the good points of your child, it is a good idea to gradually improve your troubled personality by dealing with your parents. Children are often referred to as "mirrors" that reflect their parents, but parenting is still very important when you think that the way you treat your parents can change them into children of any character. Bring up a person with a great personality, paying close attention to how you treat your child.