A letter to moms who are busy working

To moms who are busy working; "How to convey love that makes children smile"To double-income moms: Are you worried that you don't have much time to interact with your children? Some moms may be worried that their child will be lacking in affection and affect their growth. So, this time, I will introduce how to convey love to children even if you work together and have no time.4 ways to convey love to your childDid you forget to tell your child what is most important because you are busy? It's how much you "love" your child. I know that children, of course, love you, but it's also important to tell them on a daily basis. So, this time, I would like to introduce four typical methods on how to convey love to children.Communicating love to your child doesn't take much time. No matter how busy you are, it will be easy to carry out these methods. Even if you work together and are busy, you can properly convey your affection to your child.Let's listen to the story of the childWhat can I do to convey my affection for the short time I spend with my child? First of all, it is important to listen carefully to your child's story. For example, after returning home, take a relaxing bath with your child and ask what happened on that day, such as "What did you do at Kindergarten today?" "Did you get along with your friends?" It's good. At this time, if you listen while mixing the closed question that you can answer with yes and no and the open question that you can answer with your own words, it will be easier for the child to talk. If your child talks hard while you're busy with household chores, stop and look at your child's face and listen carefully. Your child can feel that "Mom is looking at me."Let's tell children a lot of "I love you"It is also important to convey a lot of "loving" feelings to your child when you are with them. When your child is acting spoiled, you can hug him tightly and say "I love you" in words, or just hugging him gently will convey his feelings to the child. In addition, before the child goes to bed, he asks the child, "Who do you think mom loves most in the world?" And asks the child to answer "Me!" There is also a way to tell. If your child truly understands that "Mom loves me," your kid will be a self-affirming child. Even if you spend less time together, your child will grow up straight.Cherish skin-ship timeWhen I get home and have dinner and take care of my children, my mom tends to run out of space. But no matter how busy you are, be sure to value your child's skin-ship time. It's also good to hug your child or kiss your cheeks or forehead. At night, it's a good idea to put your child on your mom's lap and read a picture book. If you have time to relax in your skin-ship with your mom, your child will be able to work hard even in situations where you have to leave your mom every day, such as when you go to the kindergarten. By feeling the affection from mom through skin-ship, the child grows up healthy and healthy. Even if you cut corners on household chores, try to prioritize time with your child.Thank the childThe word "thank you" is an important word for accepting children and showing gratitude. It is possible to indirectly and firmly convey how happy it is that a child exists, which will be an opportunity to deepen the relationship between parents and children. Not only thank your child for doing something, but also for being there. Parents are saved by their children's smiles and simple words. By expressing gratitude straight, you will be able to convey your affection to your child.Time and affection are not proportional. Everyday care is importantHow was it. Did you know that it's not absolutely necessary to have a long time to convey love to your child? Children want their favorite moms and dads to see themselves. In order to respond to that, it is important to keep in mind every day. Please practice the method I told you every day so that you can convey your love to your child even in a short time.