Not playing with friends?!!

Why doesn't my child play with friends?When children become elementary school students, their friendships expand and they sometimes decide on their after-school schedule with their friends. On the contrary, if they don't plan to play with anyone after school, will my children have any friends? Are they being bullied? Some moms may be worried. It's not a bad thing to be alone, but it's a little worrisome if it happens too often. This time, we'll look at why kids don't play with friends and what to do about it.Think about why your kids don't play with your friendsHave you ever wondered why you have a child who doesn't play much with their friends? Don't just look at the behavior of not playing with friends and interpret it as "bad communication" or "problem in the future". The important thing is to know why your child doesn't play with friends.If you child really wants to play but they can't join a group of friends, you can teach them how to talk to them and listen to their children's feelings. If they are being bullied, you will need to take appropriate measures. However, if you don't seem to be in trouble and prefer to spend time alone, don't worry. In that case, the parent only has to acknowledge and watch over the child."Do not play with friends" Children's psychologyWhen my cute child has to play with friends, it is the psychology that is worrisome. You may be worried, "Are you feeling lonely?" Explore the psychology of children who do not play with their friends.I really like one personThere are different reasons why children like to spend time alone. "I want to read a book rather than play," "I like to spend quietly rather than make noise," "I don't have friends I like, so it's easier for me to be alone." Sometimes there is something crazy about it, or it's a quiet type. I do that because I prefer to "spend alone" rather than "play with friends" rather than not being able to play when I want to play with my friends.Tired of lessons and schoolWhen the mind and body are tired due to changes in the environment, children seem to think, "I want to relax at home where I can relax." The image of a child is tireless and innocent, but when he reaches a certain age, he begins to become aware of fatigue. Sometimes I have a schedule that I want to be alone, saying, "Let's read a book while relaxing at home today."I don't have friends nearbyNot all adults can enjoy working at work. Everyone has a good match with the people who gather there. Even if a person recommends you to be a good person, you may feel that it doesn't suit you when you actually meet them. This kind of relationship is also in the world of children, and maybe it's just that we haven't found a good friend yet.The first thing to do when a child who doesn't play with friends is worried It turns out that children have their own feelings, but it is true that some parents want them to learn relationships. So, here's how to deal with children who don't play with their friends.Watch over the childThis is the first method. The child is a child, spending all his life at school and returning home. When I come home tired and want to relax at home or spend time on what I want to do or hobbies, my parents ask me "Do I have to play with my friends?" "Do you have any friends at school?" Children feel pressure when they ask or ask questions. It's easy to compare with others, saying, "Other children are playing with their friends," but each child's growth rate is different. If you keep an eye on "I want to be alone now," children can spend their time freely. By watching, you can also notice small changes.Observe the childIt may be similar to watching the first one, but observing the child is also important. Are you in a state where you only know the current situation that "children are not playing with friends"? Do you see how the child goes to school? What kind of face does she come back from school? Please observe carefully.If you're always tired and have a dark look, you may need to think about what to do, and if you're smiling and having fun, or if you talk a lot about what happened at school, the child is It's likely that you're having a good time at school. By observing regularly, you will be able to notice what your child cannot say. Let's start by looking closely at the child.Take a skin-ship at homeThis method is disliked if you overdo it after the third grade of elementary school, so let's make it moderate. If you're getting bored at home, be sure to work on something or talk to them and get a skin-ship.For example, when a child returning from school is watching TV in his spare time, or when he is not doing anything, he can help him cook dinner, play games with him, and do what he can do together. please look. If you invite them persistently, it will cause over-interference and may close your child's mind, so be sure to invite them moderately.Ask the teacher what happened at schoolChildren may not be able to speak well and are often silent to avoid being misinterpreted by their parents. To speak in the same position as an adult, the adult partner is still the best. It's also a good idea to ask your homeroom teacher what your child is doing at school, or ask your mom friends in the same class.How was it? Did you know that you don't have to worry right away just because your child doesn't play with friends?However, if you are convinced of a serious situation such as being bullied by your child's observations or the opinions of adults around you, give early support by consulting with your partner or school teacher.