Parents' magical words that give children strength [YOU are the best MOM] vol.2

How many can you say if you are asked "What are your child's strengths?"I think many parents are more concerned about their children's  weaknesses than their strengths. People are originally good at finding weaknesses, but not so good at finding strengths. But finding out the strengths of a child and communicating them to the child can have a very positive effect on the child. There is an important way to find your strengths even when you can't think of them.The weakness turns into a strong point. Let's convert it into positive words and increase its strengthsHow to find your child's strengths, but first, write down your strengths and weaknesses. If you look at what you wrote out, you might think that there aren't many advantages and many disadvantages, but that's fine. Even if you understand the weaknesses, you understand the child properly. The strengths and weaknesses are like the front and back of a coin, and the strengths are behind the weaknesses. The weaknesses are, in other words, the strengths. For example, "relaxing" becomes "I have my own pace". "I don't have the ability to concentrate" becomes "I'm curious". Just paraphrasing "satiating" into a positive word, such as "quick switching," magically turns into the child's strengths.Let's dare to talk about the strengths of children. Confidence overflows in childrenIt is also recommended that you dare to talk about the strengths you find as the good points of the child, even in front of others. It will give your child great confidence. If you don't immediately think of what the child's strengths are, try observing the child's play, behavior, and language. You will discover an unexpected side of your child. It is important to remove the belief of moms and the prejudice that "this child is such a child". Before you get used to it, you will need to practice turning your weaknesses into strengths. Increase the strengths by the number of weaknesses.Finding strengths that leads to your child's future dreamsIt is difficult for children to notice their own strengths. That is why it is necessary for others to find their strengths. Knowing their strengths for children will be a strength in their future lives. If you know what you are good at, you may find that you are not aware of it. And it also leads to the confidence of the child. Developing your child's strengths will also affect your future options. If you communicate your strengths and live to develop your strengths, you will be more likely to find your dreams for the future. That is why it is a very important "work" for parents to find out the strengths of their children and convey them to them.