The selfishness of a 4-year-old child is a great opportunity for the future!

If your child cries or rebels when he or she doesn't get what he wants, you have trouble dealing with it. What should a parent do when children behaves in a selfish manner like this?Especially when you are about 4 years old, if you don't get what you want, you will become emotional, frustrated, and selfish. It may seem like a daunting task, but it's also a great opportunity to learn how your child can overcome things that aren't what he or she wants, depending on how the parents think. Let's decide to overcome it together with parents and improve their child's solution."Don't do" "I don't like" Negative words are not the child's feelingsIn the frustration of a 4-year-old child when he says "I don't like anything", various emotions and intentions of the child may be hidden. First of all, let's wait for the next word while accepting the feeling as it is. At the age of four, there are many things I want to do but it doesn't work, I can't do it, and I still can't put it into words. I'm trying hard to convey that. Let's support you to put your feelings into words.Let's think together and overcome the hurdles for childrenThink together when your child faces a problem. If your child's feelings are high, try hugging them so that they can calm down, or repeat the child's words and say them to your mom. Then work with your child to come up with a solution. It is also good to give advice on specific methods. When you're emotional or selfish, you don't know what to do. Tell them that there is a solution when your child feels uncomfortable.Let's listen to mom and share the feelings of the childIf you can share the true meaning of the words that appear on the surface, you will be closer to your child at once. Don't be swayed by emotional words, and sometimes be calm and snuggle up. First of all, I repeatedly sympathize with the words that the child said, "That's right." Even in a detour, it may be faster to take good care of your child's feelings. When you are 4 years old and you feel anxiety and stress at the turning point of your growth. Hold big and accept your child's thoughts.When mom accepts feelings, children can control their feelingsIt's not a bad thing for a child to have uncertain feelings. By accepting your emotions, you can shift to positive thinking. Around the age of four is a very important time to control your emotions. Ask specific questions about "what to do" and think about solutions together. Children will be able to control their emotions and develop their own ability to overcome problems. And that will be a “trigger” to become a strong child who can find a solution by himself even in the face of difficulties in the future. ..