Your words give children the confidence boost!! [YOU are the best MOM] vol.7
Give your child confidence with your words and the courage to make them grow!
Have you ever told your child to be more confident?This word is supposed to be encouraging, but it's actually something to watch out for! It is natural that no one has "confidence" in what they have never done. Self-confidence is the growth of the mind that can only be nurtured through the experience of getting through. It is important to ask your child to take a step forward, not "Challenge with confidence!" But "Let's try it first, even if it's just a little". Also, trying to challenge the child because he/she is interested in something is a shortcut to develop the child's self-confidence. Mom will do to watch over it and support it.
Delivering words that motivate and encourage
What should you do when your child is losing confidence, nervous, or depressed? Any child is nervous when doing something in public or trying something new. You may be afraid and stop. You might think, "May fail." In such a case, please give great encouragement and confidence, such as "You have the courage to try something like this." Please say, "You can do it!" "It's always well done, so it's okay today." Deliver words that give you the best possible image and build your confidence. The words of moms and dads give children the most courage and self-confidence. Even when you can't do it well, you will gain confidence through the experience of working hard and being happy to be kindly helped, and you will be able to take on the challenge positively on your own.
Sometimes it is necessary to trust the child and not help
If you want your child to do something on their own, it's one way to let the child do everything at their own risk. For example, suppose you tell your child what your parents are doing all the time and tell them, "I'll leave it to you." Then, the child will be responsible and motivated to do what he or she has been entrusted with. In addition, it is thought that the fact that the child is entrusted to the child feels that the parent trusts it, and that feeling leads to motivation. Also, when a child is not good at it, he / she wants to help, but sometimes it is important for parents to have the courage to not support it. The child himself challenges, fails, recovers, and challenges again.Isn't it the job of parents to provide an environment where they can have such an experience? Trusting your child and leaving it to them creates motivation and a spirit of challenge. I think that children can be motivated and work on everything because they feel that they are trusted and supported by their parents.