Overcoming “Shyness” [YOU are the best MOM] vol.21

Tell the Shyness child that "it's okay at your own pace" and keep an eye on it.

Moms with shy children will be particularly worried when they move into a new environment, such as when a child enters school or changes classes. If you get used to the environment, you should be able to convey your feelings to your friends, but the time it takes to get used to it is anxious. In such a case, it is more important to recognize the current appearance of the child and adjust to the pace of the child, rather than trying to change the child himself. In order for a shy child to get used to it, he needs a sense of security that he can do it at his own pace.

Respect your child's pace so that you can feel at ease here

Each child has a different personality. For example, in kids coaching, children's personalities are divided into five types, one of which is the delicate type. It is characterized by being more sensitive and sensitive to the five senses than a typical child. You can feel changes in facial expressions and situations that other people do not notice. As a result, I am worried about various things, and it takes time to adapt to the new environment. Delicate-type children can't open their hearts until they feel safe here. This type of child can demonstrate his childhood when he thinks "this person is safe" and "here is safe". It will take a little longer than other children, but believe that you will get used to it and keep pace with your child. The important thing is not to be impatient and to proceed little by little at the child's pace. Don't impose your parents' pace and values.

A shy child is a serious and hard worker. Find what you like and stretch it!

A shy child will not get used to it immediately when he goes to a new place, and it will take some time. However, if you can recognize that it is a place where you can feel at ease, you will start to participate, so you need to keep an eye on it until you feel at ease. It's a good idea to stay by your side until you get used to it. Being serious, you can work hard and grow steadily if you like. The more you can do, the more self-confidence you will have, the less anxiety and stress you will have, and the more you will have fun.